I suppose this is the blessing of being in NYC but also what makes these lists really not accurate (no offense meant to those that do like these places) but I have lived in NYC most of my life now and have never been to any of these. We do like to go out and try new places too. In a list it would be impossible to be truly representative of what NYC has to offer. These places are certainly worth looking into but no list can stand as a definitive "list" of what NYC has.. which is really a great thing.
I have made some local suggestions here (East Village)
http://www.voltaggiobrothers.com/discussion_posts/list/2/1174/1I have been to some places that are not very good (none are on the Eater list, Village Voice's list seems based on what places made news not what is really good since I have been to some of those and don't agree with the hype
http://blogs.villagevoice.com/forkintheroad/archives/2010/01/our_10_best_eas.php) so the best thing to do is be open, try what you want, not what a review suggests- because NYC is so filled with culinary talent if a place isn't mentioned anywhere doesn't always mean it won't be the best place you have ever eaten and everyone's tastes are different so what one dislikes another may love :)